So there are things you just have. Like, capacity to drink if you're a Punjabi or the creative skills and beautiful hair if you're a Bengali or maybe the ability to study and do engineering no matter what, if you're a South Indian.
Well, yes all those are stereotypes but to an extent they are true. You get all the traits right from the beginning and it defines you who you are. Its almost as if you've grown up with these things. But one thing that doesn't come to you almost since birth is a CHARACTER.
Now, in today's modern world, everyone is so busy pleasing every second person that they'd do it at any cost. So much so that they're ready to bond over conversations that lead to bashing a random person's character. Now everyone gossips and bitches. Yes we know that. But there are some ethics related to that too. Here are a few ground rules for all the idiots out there:
1. Definition of bitching.
You all geniuses out there first get this one right. Bitching is insulting someone to make them feel bad or to make yourself feel better or both. Not character bashing in public. And I fail to understand just why would you want to insult someone you barely know? Really people, do something better than wasting energy on this.
2. Never bitch about C to C's best friend.
Now, how hard is it for you to realise that C and his/her best friend talk about everything? If you missed that that two people are best friends and go go bitch about one of them to the other then I think you either need to start paying more attention to the obvious or do something about your dumbness.
3. You don't let it reach to his/her ears.
Now, even if you are "bitching" about, say Y, to get a little bit satisfaction in your pathetic little life at least make sure it does not reach Y's ears? Because Y doesn't want himself being judged by random people just so you get that satisfaction for 5 minutes. Y doesn't believe in such kind of social service, probably.
4. You don't pretend to be "friends"
I mean you idiots,did it EVER occur to you to probably hang out with the ones who have a spine so that by some miracle you could grow one too? If, you are bitching about B to the entire world, what you absolute asses don't realise is that B probably knows, you don't have to pretend to like B because B also doesn't give a f*ck about you after listening to what all you've said about him/her.
So, please follow some of these to guidelines while bitching about anyone. It'll make a better place or else one day the person you've been bitching about will take your case so bad that you'd want to crawl up in your bed in a dark room a never get out. :)
Well, yes all those are stereotypes but to an extent they are true. You get all the traits right from the beginning and it defines you who you are. Its almost as if you've grown up with these things. But one thing that doesn't come to you almost since birth is a CHARACTER.
Now, in today's modern world, everyone is so busy pleasing every second person that they'd do it at any cost. So much so that they're ready to bond over conversations that lead to bashing a random person's character. Now everyone gossips and bitches. Yes we know that. But there are some ethics related to that too. Here are a few ground rules for all the idiots out there:
1. Definition of bitching.
You all geniuses out there first get this one right. Bitching is insulting someone to make them feel bad or to make yourself feel better or both. Not character bashing in public. And I fail to understand just why would you want to insult someone you barely know? Really people, do something better than wasting energy on this.
2. Never bitch about C to C's best friend.
Now, how hard is it for you to realise that C and his/her best friend talk about everything? If you missed that that two people are best friends and go go bitch about one of them to the other then I think you either need to start paying more attention to the obvious or do something about your dumbness.
3. You don't let it reach to his/her ears.
Now, even if you are "bitching" about, say Y, to get a little bit satisfaction in your pathetic little life at least make sure it does not reach Y's ears? Because Y doesn't want himself being judged by random people just so you get that satisfaction for 5 minutes. Y doesn't believe in such kind of social service, probably.
4. You don't pretend to be "friends"
I mean you idiots,did it EVER occur to you to probably hang out with the ones who have a spine so that by some miracle you could grow one too? If, you are bitching about B to the entire world, what you absolute asses don't realise is that B probably knows, you don't have to pretend to like B because B also doesn't give a f*ck about you after listening to what all you've said about him/her.
So, please follow some of these to guidelines while bitching about anyone. It'll make a better place or else one day the person you've been bitching about will take your case so bad that you'd want to crawl up in your bed in a dark room a never get out. :)
Now, when you say that one bitches to make the other person feel bad, then how can you advice someone to make sure it doesn't reach their ears? How would that make them feel bad?
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